A decision in process about whether or not to stop talking with your ex-partner, even though they’re the only person who has understood you; on how it feels when your ex moves on; on managing the opinions of your friends…
A decision in process about whether or not to file an injunction to gain support for your autistic child, even though it could cost you your job; on the frustration of senseless bureaucracy; on weighing up the costs of action…
A decision to leave your family behind in Brazil to move to the USA with your children, and then to leave them behind and retire to Mexico; on wondering if it’s worth it, and a decision approaching about whether to…
A decision made at 17 to work towards the goal of retiring in your 40s; on being mathematical in decision-making, particularly around money; on riding highs and lows and not being greedy; on designing your life around only that which…
A decision to move from Mexico City to Yucatán to give your young children a better life; on choosing to leave behind family and all you’ve known to escape violence and difficult circumstances; on coming to appreciate with time what…
A decision in process to move to France, following decisions to move to China and Mexico; on following signs and impulses versus careful planning; on letting your children guide your decisions; on accepting where your decisions have led you and…
A decision to have a second baby, about how it differs to the decision to have a first; about being driven by a desire to give your child a sibling; about the influence of a sister’s advice and the weight…
An impulsive decision to buy concert tickets, even though there are many reasons not to; on the pressure to start thinking about more serious decisions, like when and where to finally buy a house; on other people’s judgements of your…
A decision about deprioritising relationships that no longer serve you and putting more effort into those that do; about finding ways to let go of relationships that feel friction-filled or heavy in favour of those with shared values and interests;…
A decision about pursuing adventure and the difficult reality of moving to the other side of the world; about feeling responsible for your partner and children; about how a decision not feeling right initially doesn’t mean it was wrong; about…